Comments on: written after the “no-fight” break-up http://farrierforhire.wordpress.com/2007/08/26/written-after-the-no-fight-break-up/ The life of a barbarian following the call Tue, 27 May 2008 16:41:10 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: gingerporter http://farrierforhire.wordpress.com/2007/08/26/written-after-the-no-fight-break-up/#comment-2486 gingerporter Tue, 04 Sep 2007 03:52:42 +0000 http://farrierforhire.wordpress.com/2007/08/26/written-after-the-no-fight-break-up/#comment-2486 You have a wise roommate....I have a friend who actually gave her boyfriend a questionaire prior to their dating to get his views on things so she would know whether or not they were on the same page. Things like how they feel about discipline, whether or not they want you to work or be a SAHM and raise your children, the breakdown of duties around the house...would he be a helper or have the attitude that you stay at home so he shouldn't help. Will he have treat you with a servants love..like Christ did the disciples. He was head of the church..but he loved them with servant love..will he love you like Christ loved the church....It is best to get that out in the open. God will bring the mate he has chosen for you when he feels you are ready....it will sneak up on you. I was 29 when I got married and had my first child. My husband was only the second man i'd ever dated....it was worth the wait...:-) You have a wise roommate….I have a friend who actually gave her boyfriend a questionaire prior to their dating to get his views on things so she would know whether or not they were on the same page. Things like how they feel about discipline, whether or not they want you to work or be a SAHM and raise your children, the breakdown of duties around the house…would he be a helper or have the attitude that you stay at home so he shouldn’t help. Will he have treat you with a servants love..like Christ did the disciples. He was head of the church..but he loved them with servant love..will he love you like Christ loved the church….It is best to get that out in the open. God will bring the mate he has chosen for you when he feels you are ready….it will sneak up on you. I was 29 when I got married and had my first child. My husband was only the second man i’d ever dated….it was worth the wait…:-)

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